The 3 Marriage Connections

The success of every marriage depends on many factors which are tied to inherent behaviours of the couples involved in the marriage and what influence they permit or allow to interface with their marriages consciously or subconsciously. Marriages all over the world are not perfect, the only perfect things in marriage are the fruits of marriage, the children; no matter how bitter any marriage turn out to be later on, both parents still have a great degree of love for the kids they have had together, this accounts for the high and prevalent level of custody cases. 

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There are 3 marriage connections which denotes how couples either singularly or collectively influence decisions or behaviours in their marriages which may be detrimental or of benefit to unity of the marriage.

1. The Family Connection

This is specific to couples whose parents are still living and who have siblings either younger or elder siblings. There is somehow a bound within the family such that either of the couples find it difficult to totally trust the husband or the wife on sundry matters. To this type of couple, his/her immediate family is number one and the marriage comes second but this might not mean that such couple do not cherish the partner but just that the couple hold his/her immediate family in high esteem.

The Family Connection is a clear situation where the couple immediate family, be it the parents or siblings is top on the decision tree in critical and major matters of the marriage. Such couple see the marriage as just an association, so to speak and do not have complete trust on the judgement of the husband or wife even after a collective agreement has been reached by them both. The family connected couple will still go ahead and consult the immediate family for clarification and if contrary opinion surfaces, the initial agreement would thereafter amount to futility.

In the Family Connection status, secrets are taken from the marriage and lodged with the immediate family but no secret from the immediate family are ever revealed by the husband to the wife or by the wife to the husband as the case may be.

2. The Friends Connection

This may be but not limited to a situation where couples are orphaned. It may mean that such couple never had a worthwhile home association with parents, perhaps they never had the privilege of having parental guidance owing one factor or the other. On the other hand it may mean that they had friends at their early lives which became so much reliable and trustworthy in such a way that strong bonds became inevitable. This circle of friends also include ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends who they had had intimate relationship with prior to marriage and where such relationships were still open after marriage.

These couples have no immediate family or has no trust in them and therefore place close friends on top of the decision tree. they also do not have complete confidence in the marriage irrespective of whether they are happily married or not happily married. All matters of significance that the couple is not cleared with, he/she will table before friends and whatever decision that was reached will thereafter form his/her position on such issue. The friends connection is somehow found in people who are either socialite, celebrities or people in high places either financially or academically and as such see their parents or partner as no match in decision making ability.

In the Friends Connection status, secrets are taken from the marriage and lodged with close friends but no secret from the opposites are ever revealed by the husband to the wife or by the wife to the husband as the case may be.

3. The Marriage Connection

The Marriage Connection is the ideal situation that is expected of every marriage, a marriage is meant to be a single unit by association with the strength and purpose of pure unity, though this has become very rare in the modern day world. Couples are supposed to be an inseparable pair; 'a man shall leave his family and shall be united to his wife to become one flesh' is a quote from the Christian Bible. All other cultures and religion do not also see marriage differently other than a union of flesh, blood, spirit and soul which should be preserved as such and always.

The one and only source of trust and confidence is in the marriage itself, the couples are fortified with understanding and have great trust in each other. They see the marriage as the alter of unity where every issue of their marriage must be presented; even where there are grown ups and adult children of the marriage, matters still remain tied and concentrated only within the parents circle and out of ear shots of their children. To the Marriage Connection, the couples' parents and their friends are no where in the decision tree rather the couples operate independently.

In the Marriage Connection status, secrets are never taken from the marriage and lodged with the immediate family or friends; the wife and husband conceal every classified marriage issue and deal with it themselves.

The 3 Faces of Christianity

Christianity as we all know has been a religion that is associated with Jesus Christ of Nazareth as recorded in the Holy Bible, the only scripture of Christendom. Over hundreds of years of the coming of Christianity, there has been different extremes to the practice of Christianity with each having their strong points for their distinct approach to this same Christ inspired religion. The 3 Faces of Christianity might not address every of the differences existing in the Christendom but it is the sure eyes through which you can see the differences on a basic scale as is opined below.

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1. The Son Perspective

Prior to Christianity, Judaism was practiced by the Jews with every other religion tagged as not from the Almighty God. The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is what the God of the Jews was called, then Jesus came and set another tune to transform the Judaism he as well practiced, giving rise to one of the most widely practiced religion in all of the world.

After the death of Christ by crucifixion, his disciples carried on the work he taught them preaching and teaching every one that cares to listen about Christ the Son of God who was sent to atone for the sins of mankind so that they can be saved from sin which is a hindrance from having eternal life after death.

Today, the group of churches that adopt the the son perspective as their focal point of worship are the Anglicans, the Baptist, the Methodist, the Africans, the Presbyterian, the Adventist and host of all the new age churches we sometimes refers to as Pentecostal churches or new generation churches. Jesus Christ is the one point reference to their doctrine and practices.

2. The Father Perspective

These group of churches see God the Father as the primary way to profess their faith with no intention to undermine the other worship figures of Christianity. They believe God the Father is unique, the Almighty, they believe he is distinct and somehow superior to the rest of the worship figures in Christianity.

They emphasize this uniqueness and oneness by referring to Him by His name Jehovah as recorded in the Holy Bible. They have in bid to emphasize their different perspective to Christianity translated their own unique Scripture which they call the New World Translation of the Holy Scriptures. In their version of the Holy Book they have replaced every word God with Jehovah.

These group of Christians are called Jehovah's Witnesses, they are popular in the world because of the organised documentation of their doctrines without deviating from specific teachings they have been known for for many many years. Several publications like My Book of Bible Stories, the Awake and the Watchtower are unique publications of the Jehovah's Witnesses. We have other Christian groups like God's Kingdom Society, God's Kingdom Mission who have taken after the Jehovah's Witnesses approach but have resort to using Holy Bible and not the New World Translation of the Holy Scriptures.

3. The Mother Perspective

When Jesus Christ ascended to heaven as recorded in the Holy Bible, Peter was thereafter the head of the Christians upon which rock the church was built. According to the Catholic doctrine, Peter was recorded as the first Pope of the Catholic church. Right from when Martin Luther gave 99 reasons why he has to leave the Catholic church to start what was referred to as the Protestant movement, the Catholic church has remained unshaken and has been expanding.

The Catholic church undoubtedly is one of the most enduring and resilient organisation in the world with over 1 billion membership and a doctrine that is continuously under attack by the rest of Christendom. The good thing about the Catholic Church is that it is only traceable to Peter being the first Pope and also the early Christians. It has no one person as its founder on whose individual hard work and finances the church was established like every other churches.

The central figure of worship in the Catholic Church is Mary the Mother of God as they call her and this has been one of the area where other Christian groups have continue to disagree with the Catholic church. Far more emphasis is laid on Mary the Mother of God than Jesus Christ Himself and even God the Father. The fact that She is refer to as the Mother of God is enough to conclude that she supersede every other worship figures in the Catholic doctrine

The Lies About After God Fear Women

I have severally heard and read this statement: 'After God Fear Women' but I have come to realise that the statement in itself is not well thought through; it is a mere consolatory assumption that needs rethinking. It is believed that God is all power and can do whatever He wishes and so should be feared for His ultimate power, on the other hand, it is believed that women, though cannot be compared to God, also have many ways of doing things out of the ordinary that will stun you when revealed but we do not have the luxury to generalise this and label every woman as such.

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What is exceptionally amusing to me was this photo of a bus sent to me on social media on which back is boldly and clearly written 'After God Fear Women'; there is even far more need to 'fear' that bus because of its rickety condition and safety implications. The reservations I have with this statement is that it tends to portray every woman as one who can do unimaginable things as the statement does not paint the women folks in good light and this is unacceptable to me. 

I have some amazing, beautiful women I want to share with you, just so that you reexamine them and apply the statement: After God Fear Women'. If after reading the following submissions you still deem it necessary to believe in this contentious statement then you need to read it over and over again until you are cleared of your doubts.

1. Mother

We all have a mother, the one who got intimate with our father, got pregnant and carried us in her womb to where ever she goes, in whatever the condition, however the situation for 9 whole months or maybe more. Thereafter she passed through the pains of labour for hours before she eventually brought us into this world with life in us. She was to further nurse and breast feed us for months, watch us as we grow, from learning to sit up, creep, walk and talk. She see us through infancy, teenage years to adult years until we eventually get a family of our own.

Can we after all these then say: After God Fear Women or After God Love Women?

2. Sister

Some of us are not fortunate enough to have siblings that are females but most us of do have. Whatever the case, we do have sisters by extension, that is; cousins, nieces and all close relatives that are females. Remember how you love the little ones, remember those moments when you have to protect them from bullies at school maybe. Remember how the older ones took care of you, how they care for you, how they scolded you to get things done the right way. They are to later grow up to adult age, get married and become mothers as well.

Can we still after all these then say: After God Fear women or After God Love Women?

3. Girlfriend

We all had girlfriends at one stage, we probably have one or more now out of which one may evolve to become fiancee that we shall engage and later get married to. Remember the first date, the bonding, the partying, the outings, the promises to each other of being there for one another. Do not forget the decision day, the day you decided to take her as your life mate and how you went down on your kneels and proposed to her.

Will you look her in the eye and still say: After God Fear Women or After God Love Women?

4. Wife

Eventually you got married, remember the colourful  marriage rites and glorious celebrations, the honeymoon and the beauty of living under same roof with the woman of your dreams. She is pregnant with your child and gave birth to your baby who you proudly name and love; before that she was to pass through all the vigours and rigours of motherhood before giving you a son. They say behind every successful man is a woman and this is debatable but then is it not glorious to have had the opportunity of becoming married to the woman of your dreams; the woman who sacrificed her surname for your surname.

Will you cuddle her and then say: After God Fear Women or After God Love Women?

5. Daughter

She had a baby girl for you, a pretty beautiful innocent child but the question is do you love her and I heard you say yes over and over and over again. Fathers definitely love their daughters, it widely believed in the African circle that the female child is more caring and more open to supporting and ensuring the well being of the parents before and even after getting married. I even believe kids from married daughters make better and more successful grand kids.

Can you sit your daughter down and tell her to her face: After God Fear Women or After God Love Women?

The Girl Caught With 7 Clothing Hidden In Her Bikini

This video clip of a girl who managed to tuck in 7 pieces of clothing around her privates is incredibly awesome! I have watched the clip circulating on social media over and over again and I am amazed not at the fact that she stole but at the skills she had put in to perfect her scheme and most likely it was technology that must have outsmarted her. There is need to be explain point by point before you really can come to terms with what there is to applaud. 

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1. Her Phone

It was likely a call came into her phone and boy see where she took that phone from! You would never know she had a phone concealed there. See her she smoothly reach out for the phone and slip it out! That reminded me of a Michael Jackson track titled 'Smooth Criminal'; you could see her answer her call calmly without much stress or panic and that is quality.

2. Her Gown

The Gown she had on was cleverly selected for the job and the clothing she stole were adequately concealed under the gown. There is no way you would have suspected her if she walk past you with what she had on her coupled with the fact that the stuffing did not affect her movement in any serious way.

3. Her Bikini 'Pouch'

She had this spot on! She had created what I call a 'Kangaroo Pouch' out of a mere bikini short, cleverly crafted with an opening slit that was to enable her stuff in all the clothing with ease with such craftsmanship that is unique. Just like the Kangaroo pouch would conceal her baby, she was able to incredibly tuck in 7 pieces of clothing comfortably to everyone's amazement and that is top class!

4. Her Composure

Girls are known to always break down easily when under intense and humiliating conditions but this was not to be her portion. She remained relatively calm and collected though she had that look of: 'well that's it, the damage has been done so do not stress further. Today is surely a bad day' No tears, no panic!

5. Boutique Owner

I do not know how the whole episode ended as I am restricted only to the video clip I had that ended at the point where all the clothing has been removed from her 'pouch', 7 in total. I commend also the composure of the Boutique Owner who did not resort to barbaric means of molestation, abuse or physical assault as it is very common to see such thieves being physically assaulted and sometimes delivered to mobs for jungle justice then resulting death.

This girl has got real skills that she could harness positively, which means she would need counselling and coaching to put her talents to fruitful use. She either stole those clothing for use or for sale but it is most likely for use; worst still, she could just be an errand thief that has a boss out there that prepares and direct her on what to steal and where to steal them. The call she took might be from her boss man or lady but in any case we all need a second chance whether or not charges are pressed!

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Mr. Dick is a nice young businessman who attends one of these modern day 'fire-brand' churches that are also called Pentecostal churches. He is a typical dedicated member who is involved in most church activities but does not fall into the over zealous 'I am holier than thou' class of church hypocrites. He is just a normal simple Christian who eventually found love in Sister Hope a young fair skinned woman with a catchy personality. Hope was in her late 20s while Dick was in his mid 30s.

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It was a perfect match, Miss Hope worked in a new generation bank earning a comparatively good pay while Mr. Dick a businessman was doing well importing and exporting light goods. He occasionally make trips to Dubai and China to meet business associates to facilitate and strengthen his businesses.

Miss Hope is pretty in every aspect; she has nice facial features, average body shape, 5 feet 10 inches tall, swinging hips and bubbling boobs, she is just a complete bunch of beauty that every man must appreciate. Her feature could be likened to the equation S = S + 8 as detailed in a previous post Mathematical Equation of The Shape of Girls. Miss Hope was actively involved in the church choir as a Chorister where she occasionally lead praises in Sunday services.

Mr Dick and Miss Hope dated for three years in a hot and steaming relationship; they all-time love each others company and had the best of sex sessions compared to their previous relationships. They eventually got married in a glamorous wedding which became the talk of the church for some weeks. Fast forward 7 months after their wedding Mrs Dick gave birth to a bouncing baby boy, a handsome bundle of joy! The baby boy was born February 1.

February 14, Mrs Dick put their home in a 'red mood' everywhere was well decorated in an organised manner. She baked a valentine cake with which to celebrate her love for her young family and all these she did without letting the husband in on the plan as it was meant to be a surprise and to show her utmost gratitude for the gift of love and marriage. She had made small note on a piece of paper reading: 'My Val my sweetheart, It is most amazing that despite all my imperfections you still found it worthy to make me enjoy the beauty of motherhood once again'.

Mr Dick arrived home early that day bringing with him his own surprise as well. As he stepped out of his car in the car park, he could smell the sweet aroma of his favourite dish emanating from the kitchen. Briskly he stepped into the apartment walking into the embrace of his lovely wife the mother of his handsome baby boy Justice. He kissed her and walk straight to the very attractive cake but was caught by the note his wife has dropped beside the cake: 'My Val my sweetheart, It is most amazing that despite all my imperfections you still found it worthy to make me enjoy the beauty of motherhood once again'.

Later that evening Mrs Dick broke a long held secret, a dark one in some respect, only because it was kept for such a long time and not because of the situation itself as love does not ask why where the truth is its foundation. Mrs Dick was previously married and has had 4 kids with her previous husband; she was separated for 2 years before she met Mr. Dick. She had relocated from Benin City to Abuja where she had met Mr. Dick. Mr Dick had come home with the key to a brand new car as a valentine gift for her wife which he has not told her about yet.

Whatever happened next is left for your imagination but it is no doubt, Mr dick was highly and bitterly devastated.

Following the above that was based on a true life story, I would want to suggest ways on how to know if she has given birth. It will take a little extra vigilance to make you understand and use these hints to get to know when a lady has had kids, not because having kids is bad but because deception is painful. The two areas you should critically assess in a lady to know if she has given birth or not are the breasts and her belly; there is no sure way you can know through the vagina if your understanding the 4 conditions of the vagina in a previous post is accurate.

1. The Breast

The breast is a give away 99.9% most of the time if only you could be critical enough to carefully observe it out of the bra! Breasts that have been filled with milk to feed a baby for quite a long time will never remain the same when the breast feeding period is over, we all know they enlarge and later reduce in size but not back or close to the original shape. I will use the word Virgin-breast and Non Virgin-breast to differentiate between the breast of a woman that has not given birth and the one that has given birth respectively.

Virgin-Breast that have not accumulated milk for breastfeeding are comparatively rigid and firmly soft; the nipple base is hard with the nipples easily aroused with little stroke of the finger because the nipples are full length and do not sink into the nipple base in some cases. A Virgin-breast could be likened to when you inflate a balloon to its full capacity and bind it to hold the air in; the balloon is rigid and firmly soft.

The Non Virgin-breast is like when you deflate a little air out of the balloon that was inflated to full capacity without shifting the position of the air stopper. The non virgin-breast is less rigid and loosely soft with the nipple sinking into the nipple base in most cases and it takes time to get the nipple arouse and firm compared to the virgin-breast.

2. The Belly

The belly is a give away 99.9% of the time, it transforms from a comparatively flat belly to what I call 'curve belly' and pot belly in its larger state. The expansion of the belly during pregnancy due to fetus growth within the womb makes a lot of changes to the overall size of the belly. After delivery, the belly starts a process of shrinking which if not assisted by prescribed massage and medication may remain largely big resulting pot belly.

A woman who has not given birth will considerably and comparatively have a flat belly as opposed to a woman who has given birth or had a miscarriage at an advanced stage of pregnancy. The belly size is more pronounced in fat women, then less in average shape women but you will take a critical assessment to discern it in very slim women. In some women, you clearly see stretch marks adorning the belly owing the expansion during pregnancy.

Critically assessing the belly of your woman will definitely give you a reliable clue as to whether she has given birth or not though modern science have armed doctors with very good medical procedures that can reduce the belly size back to normal few weeks after delivery but this is at a very high cost which only celebrities can afford.

How To Rate The Size of The Pen!s

There has been various means used to determine the size of the male penis which has not be fair enough that is why I have decided to write this article to outline the best way to determine the size of the penis with regards to individual body size. The penis size should not be taken in isolation of the individual physical attributes especially the height of the male involved.

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The size of the penis refers to here is particularly the length and also not when the penis is placid but rather it is when it is fully erect and excited. Though this method will mainly benefit growers rather than showers it is pertinent to state that what actually matter about the penis size is when it is erect. Showers may have a big penis which only get stiff when erect without any considerable increase in length as opposed to Growers who can gain in some cases close to 100% or more increase in overall length/size when fully erect.

The focal point for the measurement of the penis is the belly button or navel and the sizes or length are as indicated below: Very Small Penis, Small Penis, Average Penis, Big Penis, Very Big Penis. You should be in a standing position when determining the rating of your penis.

1. VERY SMALL PENIS

(a) Make sure your penis is fully erect.

(b) Stand up in an upright position.

(c) Do not pull but rather push your penis back to touch your abdomen and pointing towards your navel or belly button.

(d) You are having a very small penis if your penis gets half way or below half way towards your navel or belly button.

2. SMALL PENIS

(a) Make sure your penis is fully erect.

(b) Stand up in an upright position.

(c) Do not pull but rather push your penis back to touch your abdomen and pointing towards your navel or belly button.

(d) You are having a small penis if your penis gets more than half way but not up to your navel or belly button.

3. AVERAGE PENIS

(a) Make sure your penis is fully erect.

(b) Stand up in an upright position.

(c) Do not pull but rather push your penis back to touch your abdomen and pointing towards your navel or belly button.

(d) You are having an average penis if your penis touches, slightly misses or slightly above your navel or belly button.

4. BIG PENIS

(a) Make sure your penis is fully erect.

(b) Stand up in an upright position.

(c) Do not pull but rather push your penis back to touch your abdomen and pointing towards your navel or belly button.

(d) You are having a big penis if your penis is way above but not more than 50% above your navel or belly button.

5. VERY BIG PENIS

(a) Make sure your penis is fully erect.

(b) Stand up in an upright position.

(c) Do not pull but rather push your penis back to touch your abdomen and pointing towards your navel or belly button.

(d) You are having a very big penis if your penis is way above and is more than 50% above your navel or belly button.

4 Things That Cause Couples To Have Extra Lovers

Overtime I have been able to gather that the love we use to refer to is no more practicable in real sense of the word; the word love has tremendously evolved to something simpler and lighter. On that note I have specifically refer to love as the willingness to continuously engage in sexual intercourse with someone for divers benefits. People doubt the possibility to love more than one person at a time but the truth is that it is realistic and practicable to do so.

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Persons who have more than one lover do that not necessarily because they do not have love for their partners but because they do it for some benefits which might range from emotional, spiritual to financial and which also means they do it out of love for another person aside their partner as someone also to fall back on when the need arises.

This will lead us to the 4 things that cause people to have more lovers.

1. Suspended Relationships

A vast majority of persons never got married as virgins, this is a fact and an undisputable one for that matter. Premarital sex is common in our societies today despite the very subtle religious opposition to such practices. The only legitimate restriction, so to speak, is the expectation that all who engage in sex must be of adult age, that is, 18 years and above.

On a broader scale, most persons could have multiple sex relationships at a go or on a cummulative basis which means there may be possibility to have at least 5 sex relationships prior to marriage depending on the kind of society or culture. It also may occur that these previous relationships were not cancelled but rather suspended due to various reasons. These reasons might be due to loss of interest at the time, it might be change of job or school, it might be change of location, it might also be pressure from parents or friends. All these put together with other factors not mentioned could lead to the suspension of a sex relationship but not cancellation; these suspended and open relationships are thereafter ready-made channels of re-adventures.

2. Social Media

In a previous post: 'how to know if your partner may be unfaithful' I touched on the big influence of social media in relationships but mostly negatively. We are now in a world where distances has virtually been reduced to just few seconds, a world where information are disseminated at the speed of light. 

Most importantly is the fact that anyone can start a relationship from wherever or right in the comfort of his or her home. These possibilities has made it easily possible to find a sex mate, strengthen such relationships, arrange discreetly for outings and eventually engage in sexual activities. Having ready access to social media apps and understanding how personalised it is for use has created a lot of options for persons who have the urge to explore for more lovers.

3. Marriage of Necessity

At certain age especially in the African, Asian, Arabian and South American societies, men and women are expected to be married with so much cultural importance attached to the need to be married. Where a man or a woman has attained certain age and has yet to marry, tongues begin to wag, questions will then asked, while speculations will become big and maybe harmful; it is likened to a serious cultural failure that requires urgent attention.

The societal pressure to conform or satisfy cultural requirements has led to many marriages being consummated without the required essentials for a formidable and sustainable marriage. Persons herded into such marriages, sooner or later find out that there is no enduring compatibility between them couples. It is therefore further complicated where divorce is seriously frown out in such culture or society; these bottle necks only create avenues for persons to explore the possibilities of having additional lover(s).

4. Dominant Partner

In every relationship there is always the partner who dominates in some aspects of the union; dominance could be in terms of financial stand, sexual activeness, emotional strength, social status, physical beauty, religious recognition and many more. Those dominance that are of concern are financial stand, sexual activeness, physical beauty and social status.

Partners who dominates via financial stand, sexual activeness, religious recognition, physical beauty and social status tends to take advantage of these to engage in extra sex activities. Financial stand would cause one to have the resources to seek for more lovers because such partner has extra monies to spend on frivolities. Those sexually active ofcourse would go the extra mile to ensure their insatiable sexual needs are met especially where such needs cannot be completely satisfied by the current partner. 

The partner with a higher social status has the connections and time to mingle in the course of his or her involvement in social functions. It is an everyday news that divers 'men of God' all over do take advantage of their positions to prey on their members for sex which is most disgusting. Pretty ladies and handsome men are always in the eye of the storm when it comes to wadding off sex advances from opposite sex and sometimes they fall for the temptation or just take advantage of their exceptional qualities to engage in random sex activities aside of their partners.

4 Reasons Why You Should Accept There Is God

I am not going to talk about which god is god and which god is not god here; I am just going to emphasize that there are various indicators that points to the fact that there is a strong belief in a supreme being which is beyond reasonable doubts and as such should be taken seriously. Such beliefs may differ in names assigned to the god or gods and may also further differ in the mode through which each believer relate to such gods.

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Deep in every one of us, there is that conviction either consciously or subconsciously that reminds us at certain points of danger or needs to reach out to that supreme being to come help and support us to prevail against whatever difficulties. I am stating 4 cheap and reasonable facts that should make you accept that there is god.

1. Popularity

Over 85% of the world population believes in one form of a god or the other and this is quite too enormous to ignore. A subject with such great representations should be something that should be taken seriously and therefore one should try to key in to the fact that there is god and make the best out of it in whichever way that will be beneficial to us.

Going with the crowd sometimes is inevitable especially when it is a thing done without being harmful to your fellow human beings in any way.

2. Death

All men do die regardless of what you believe or what do not believe; death is inevitable on it's own but come to think of the fact that not everyone can categorically tell us with concrete facts about life after death. Divers religions have their own theory of life after death which they strongly preach and support with strong faith.

The fact that one must die is enough for one to embrace a god and live by the doctrine of such faith to at least enable you know for sure that your reward after death is certain according to your faith.

3. Culture

In many instances it is very very difficult to separate culture from religion, in other words religion and culture are the most closest of friends that shapes each other the world over. When folks argue about what is right and what is wrong, in many of the cases they are actually debating about their cultural understanding and misunderstanding but not religion.

Man lives a culture and there are thousands of cultures all over the world, some still in their original state and some have been modified by civilisation. Culture is interwoven with religion; god is the focal point of every religion and man being a cultural being needs to identify with a god that relates to his culture.

4. Authority

In every society in the world it is a verifiable fact that religious leaders wield the most authority. They may not be the richest financially but political, academical and all societal figures reverence, respect and pay homage to them at one point or the other. The Pope for instance cannot be compared in terms of authority to any political leader in the world even in the United States of America.

Such spiritual authority which may also translate to political authority cannot be if not for the reason that it is drawn from a superior entity which is a god and this should at least lead us to align to one.

The 4 Approach To Sex

If you get these facts right, it could definitely help in enabling you choose a partner that will suit your kind of person. These sex behaviours are really not something to worry about but rather you should pay attention to them because they speak volumes. Watch out for these 4 approach to sex whenever you have first time sex with your partner in comparison to subsequent love making.

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The 5 Classifications of Marriage

Marriage has been existing from time immemorial as means developed to stop fights and brutality on who keeps a woman or not. It has most recently evolved from its simple and intended state to a more complicated ritual. The original conception of marriage is rapidly changing from a simple union between a man and a woman to a more liberal association between male and male; female and female.

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Understanding 4 Conditions of The Vag!na

Several guys do become judgmental and for the wrong reasons simply because they have no understanding why the vagina is in a particular state. This misinterpretation may lead to accusations of cheating, insinuation of uncleanliness, tagging a lady a whore and at best thinking a lady is decent whereas she may not be. There are 4 conditions a vagina could be in and I want to elaborate on those conditions to shed more light on what possibly could have got the vagina to that state; the state refers here is as at when a woman is aroused prior to sexual intercourse.

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The Beauty of Dating A Colleague

Hearing 'the beauty of dating a colleague' may sound somehow odd because it is something many have said negatives things only about without properly consideration the other side of the coin. True love they say knows no barrier, so office romance should never be an exception but some organisations do not actually condone this as a matter of organisational policy and as such dating a coworker could lead to termination of appointment. This is because they see only the worst aspects of dating a colleague which should not be the case for the following good reasons.

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The 4 Aspects in Marriage

The 4 aspects in marriage means the positive characteristics of all 4, not the negatives, could be present in any particular marriage or there could be decrease from 4 to 3, 2 and possibly 1 only.

1. Friends in Marriage

There is sometimes difficulty in differentiating between a union where both persons are Friends or whether they are Lovers and you will only be able to mark the difference if you are let in to their sex life. These persons are not primarily bound by sex but
by social and commercial reasons only and this does not mean they do not engage in sex.

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The 3 Phases of Abortion You Must Know

The woman has been more prudent compared to the man in the management of her eggs, while she releases typically one at a time, the man has been so very wasteful that he releases billions of sperms in a little shot and therefore becoming more culpable of abortion.


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Mathematical Equations of The Shapes of Girls

The figures on the left of the equations stands for the word Shape.

The first figures on the right side of the equation represents the side view structure of the shape of a girl.

The second figures on the right side of the equation represents the back or front view structure of the shape of a girl.

S = P + Y .......... (1)

Girls with this shape are busty with comparatively flat buttocks when viewed from the side which is why the letter P applies. These girls are heavy from the shoulder down to the waist but are lighter from the waist down. When viewed from the back or front you see their size tapper from the shoulder down to the waist line.

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The 4 Features of Women You Never Knew

I may just mischievously point out that the story of creation according to Christianity indicated that the world would have been for only gays if not that God had a second thought and created the woman. The woman was created because God had said it is not good for the man to be alone, meaning it was not in the initial plan of God to create the woman.


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5 Facts You Should Know About Sexual Activities

Early one morning a female friend sent me a text message stating I should ask her just any question with the assurance that she will be 100% sincere in her answer. This was one the variety of fun messages that are usually passed around between family, friends and colleagues on social media. 

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